May YHWH grant you and your wife a great peace in this matter before you. May I share briefly, If this helps, of the last time my breathing shut down. It was of a very peace filled drifting, like rest was at hand. no, I did not see any bright lights, or folks waiting to greet me, like many read of in these times.
When the Ambulance arrived, they were able to revive my lung functions. My brain forgot to tell me to breath, happens. Scared my husband. Thankfully the umbilical cord holds much oxygen for our youngest I was carrying in his pracious, cargo hold.
This was not my first experience being on the edge of life and death, just one of many, The feeling is conscistant. While I will not advocate ending a life, Nor will I negate YHWH and HIS ability to draw us back from the brink. Prayerfully YHWH will not have you do anything against HIS Hallowed TORAH. For any who might wonder no not ever did my life flash before my eyes. What I will tell you is 26 years ago the Dr. said I would not live through the night, so take that for what it is worth my friends. For what ever reason this is where YHWH directed me to be for the evening, so please prayerfully do not loose faith, for YHWH has a perfect purpose in all things. May YHWH bless and keep you!
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