<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by tedack:
That sounds a bit too existential to me! If he/she stands there saying "Yes", what does that mean? </font>
Shalom tedack
Not sure what you mean by existential
ex·is·ten·tial
1.pertaining to existence.
Thy will be done?
Everything in our lives is in YHWH's knowledge and works for our good. Right?
Not give us more than we can bear - right?
Then why do we resist everything that shows up here and now?
Do we trust that YHWH is in it?
How can we rejoice in tribulation?
Without accepting by faith that this is patience working in us?
Inner resistance is to say "no" to what is, through mental judgment and emotional negativity. It becomes particularly pronounced when things "go wrong," which means that there is a gap between the demands or rigid expectations of your mind and what is.
Surrender is a purely inner phenomenon. It does not mean that on the outer level you cannot take action and change the situation. In fact, it is not the overall situation that you need to accept when you surrender, but just the tiny segment called the Now.
IT is what it is.
For example, if you were stuck in the mud somewhere, you wouldn't say: "Okay, I resign myself to being stuck in the mud." Resignation is not surrender. You don't need to accept an undesirable or unpleasant life situation. Nor do you need to deceive yourself and say that there is nothing wrong with being stuck in the mud. No. You recognize fully that you want to get out of it. You then narrow your attention down to the present moment without mentally labeling it in any way. This means that there is no judgment of this moment.
Therefore, there is no resistance, no emotional negativity. You accept the moment.
It is what it is.
Then you take action and do all that you can to get out of the mud. Such action I call positive action. It is far more effective than negative action, which arises out of anger, despair, or frustration. Until you achieve the desired result, you continue to practice surrender by refraining from labeling it.
Hope this makes it a little clearer
Shalom
Sharon