Shalom Erin,
Welcome!

Heb 4:12 For the word of YHWH is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
May YHWH grant both you and your husband HIS discernment, and may HIS Light shine upon all that is in darkness, leaving only His Light.
YHWH knew what he was doing making the man the head, and as both you and your husband surrender to HIS Word and Will, His mighty shalom will reign in your marriage.
Love in Yahushua
Tamar