<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by earthymamma:
I get strong messages from other believers this is not the time to be having more children.
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? = I would question that these were messages from other 'believers'.
I concur with 'Harvester', good post, we too have lost children & i know the pain.
Ok, i'm not a woman, and you want a womans viewpoint, so forgive my intrusion, but my wife will not post as her English is not too good, but I would say that we need to get messages from YHWH - not from man [ or woman ], though opinions can be helpful, I know.
We do not exercise any form of contraception, but rely on abstinense at certain days, by no means can we take the decision to deny access to the world any whom YHWH choses to use us to bring forth. I am now 51, my wife is in her 40s & I have fathered 10 children [ two wives ], and as Harvester says, when I was starting out 29 years ago, the same chant was heard, not a good time. Fortunately, I took no heed then, or now.
I think some messages in the Bible are for certain times, and maybe we need to be careful in our interpretation.
Having children is the most beautiful physical to spirtitual parralel.
I wish you peace of mind & wisdom, but leave it to YHWH if you are unsure, just ask for His will be done, not yours, then enjoy! - & certainly not the will of others 'believers', what is a believer anyway, and what gives them the authority to make judgements on your actions?
Rom Cht 3 " As it is written,There is none righteous, no, not one"
I accept that we live in what appears to be approaching the end times,
but life, as Harvester says, has to go on, after all, it DOES NOT forbid children at any time, quite the opposite, they are counted as a blessing.
peace & blessings [ lots of them ]
love
Stew [ for Lourdes by proxy ]