<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by naesimo:
Sharon,
In the desert is it like a dry heat? In the south it's heat+humidity=sultry. Sometimes it's hard to breathe and we don't like to go outside much. Do you like to garden and what kind of plants grow well in the desert? If you garden do you use special irrigation techniques? We need to learn to better utilize rain water I think, sometimes the water bill gets high in the summer.
I would like to hear more about you being solitary by nature, and how you feel you are overcoming that. If you don't mind sharing. You could email me if it would take the topic off too much.
What you said:
quote:just a little suggestion, break the habit of thinking what others think.
but if you can't then at least make it GOOD.
I always tell my kids - You ain't no fortune teller or mind reader but if you insist on doing that at least make it good.
It sorta reminds me of what my mom would say "don't try to impress anybody and try not to depress anybody".
quote:So, I bet your visitors would probably say" that's a nice place to visit and I especially enjoyed the shalom in their home!"
I like that! It does seem like you have a way with words .
Shalom & Love,
Naesimo</font>
Shalom naesimo
Yes the heat is very dry.
Real tough on this freckled Irish Caucasian skin!
I love when we go to California my skin just plumps up beautifully and I look 10 years younger LOL.
I am a novice gardener and I have my little patch in the back yard. It is 1/2 flowers and half veggies and herbs.
You can grow many things here if you have shade and water. I 'll post you some pictures as soon as possible. The desert is beautiful in it's own way.
My tomatoes are doing well NOW since the nights are cool and days are 70's.
I built a mister around my little garden and I would run it during the hottest part of the day like 11 am to 2 pm. It waters as well as keeping the temperature around the garden down.
We have mandatory rules around here about water and you can get fined for inefficient uses. Like sprinklers that hit sidewalks, watering between 11 am and 7pm, and sprinklers more than one day a week in the winter.They actually have water police who will come and write you a ticket>
I do like the dry. I grew up in OHIO and I remember when things got wet they would get that moldy smell. Not here, EVERYTHING evaporates!
I have a pool and I read on the water page that if we didn't use covers for our pools and didn't refill it would evaporate the whole 19,000 gallons by fall.
I thought that was incredible.
As for my solitary by nature, I just enjoy my own company and silence.I think it is a good thing and doesn't need to be too overcome. Messiah went off to be alone with the Father regularly. I think I have a good balance in my nature. I just have to adjust my attitude when I am with people to be present and enjoy them but make sure I get my quiet time with my books or just silence.
I try to never let things inanimate (stuff) be more important than the people in my life so I have learned to lower my housekeeping expectations and be thankful for all my peoples.
I don't mind staying here in this forum since it is the fellowship forum, Ain't that what we doing? Fellowshipping.
Love & Shalom sister
Sharon